I remember several years ago when I used to be the director of a local community church day camp for children in one of Toronto's priority neighbourhoods at that time. I had just come back in from doing groceries for that week and was accosted by a 4 year old girl we will call Tanisha. She ran up to me, and I will never forget her words, She said " Ms. Kim, Ms. Kim. come quick, the big kids are playing sex!." Playing sex? what? I quickly began to panic, so many thoughts